For some LDS teens, their youth leaders are also their parents. Hillary Lake, 18, of the Mica Peak Ward, Spokane Valley Stake, learned about leadership from her mother, who is a stake Young Women president. "She doesn't serve because it's a calling and she has to do it. She serves because she loves to."
Tegan Monaghan, 17, who attends the Sullivan Ward in the same stake, says that leaders are great mentors. "They are so loving, no matter what, and want the best for you," she says. "They remember your name, and they are there for you."
Being able to talk to leaders not only helps in dealing with day-to-day life, but it also sets a good example in how to lead. Lani Call, 17, of the Pines Ward, Spokane East Stake, says, "The fact that they are willing to take time one-on-one and just talk to me and are willing to take as much time as needed means the world to me. You should always talk to your parents, but it's important to be able to talk to the leaders, too."
Another way to learn about leadership is to choose good friends. "The best way to learn to be a good leader is to make sure you're following the right crowd. Then you can step up and be a good leader, listen to them, and invite people to activities," says Brad Smidt, 17, of the First Ward, Coeur d'Alene Stake.
Kiyana Dickson, 18, of the Cheney First Ward, Spokane West Stake, remembers a successful activity in her stake where this principle was illustrated. "One of the best activities we had was a summer social when a lot of inactive and nonmember friends came because other people invited them to have fun with us. Now I talk to those kids all the time, and they smile more often. They go to activities and know how much fun they are."